http://beigejavier.multiply.com/ "For where your treasure is, There your heart will be also"...<br><br><br>Thank you for Adding me up and for visiting my site! God bless you all guys! (^_^) Fri, 25 Jul 2008 09:56:34 -0000 Tue, 17 Jun 2008 17:07:24 -0000 http://images.beigejavier.multiply.com/logo http://beigejavier.multiply.com 100 100 http://beigejavier.multiply.com/photos/album/17/recent_facepics Tue, 17 Jun 2008 17:07:24 -0000 <font color="#808080"><font face="Georgia">I am 30 years old, and would love to meet someone, fall in love, and get married. My problem is that I'm too picky -- or at least my friends tell me I am. I have first and sometimes second dates fairly often, but there's always something that makes me end it before it gets too much more involved than that. He took a cell phone call during our date. Or he works late every night. Or he has no relationship with his family. To me, these are major red flags that he is not a man who can be devoted to a relationship without baggage or distraction. I know my standards are unreasonably high, but can you advise me on how to tell the difference between a minor human quirk and a relationship deal-breaker? --<strong>Picky</strong></font></font> &nbsp; http://beigejavier.multiply.com/journal/item/3/Am_I_Too_Picky_When_Dating Fri, 30 May 2008 06:16:21 -0000 <strong>Hi Picky,</strong> I'm not a professional Psychologist or legal adviser but God give this wonderful gift me. But before I highlight some of those qualifications, let's identify a visible truth. You are more than likely a commitment-phobe. Now, there are two kinds: the passive commitment-phobe, who sabotages the relationship before it even begins by dating inappropriate people, and the active commitment-phobe, who looks for all kinds of outs as the relationship grows more serious. It seems clear to me that you're the latter, an active commitment-phobe. The men you are dating are not bad. If they're imperfect, then so are you. Indeed, if they were perfect, why would they need you? It is through our failings, shortcomings, and deficiencies that we come to appreciate what our partners add to our lives. Just think about it. Were you to devote yourself to one of these imperfect men, you could probably teach them how to honor a woman by, say, not answering the phone during a date, honor himself by not... http://beigejavier.multiply.com/journal/item/2/The_Answer Fri, 30 May 2008 06:15:23 -0000 I'm Happy with my Christian http://beigejavier.multiply.com/photos/album/9/VCF_Friends Tue, 15 Apr 2008 12:20:27 -0000 I'm with my true christian http://beigejavier.multiply.com/photos/album/8/My_Birthday... Tue, 15 Apr 2008 11:05:48 -0000 http://beigejavier.multiply.com/photos/album/7/MONK_TO_CHRIST Mon, 14 Apr 2008 06:07:24 -0000 http://beigejavier.multiply.com/music/item/36/ Thu, 20 Mar 2008 22:44:26 -0000 http://beigejavier.multiply.com/music/item/3/My_Music Thu, 20 Mar 2008 18:49:44 -0000 I miss them so http://beigejavier.multiply.com/photos/album/5/My_Family_in_Japan Tue, 18 Mar 2008 20:28:19 -0000 From heartache to heartbreak song that grooves you while making you depressed by listening to it's http://beigejavier.multiply.com/reviews/item/1 Tue, 18 Mar 2008 01:02:41 -0000 A music that will soothes your http://beigejavier.multiply.com/music/item/1/Soul_Obsession Tue, 18 Mar 2008 00:56:11 -0000 God's chosen http://beigejavier.multiply.com/photos/album/4/VCF_worship_team Tue, 18 Mar 2008 00:42:26 -0000 <h3 class="entry-header">Jesus paid the price for me...</h3> <p>I LOVE GOD!! Everyone longs to give themselves to someone; to have a deep full relationship w/ another; to be loved thoroughly &amp; exclusively. But God says, No, not until you are satisfied, fulfilled &amp; contented w/ being loved by Me alone. I love you, my child. Until you discover that only in Me is your satisfaction to be found. You will not be capable of the perfect human relationship that I have planned for you. You will never be united w/ another until you are united w/ Me; exclusive of other desire or longings. I want you to stop PLANNING &amp; WISHING. Allow me to bring the person to you. You just keep listening &amp; learning the things I tell you. You just WAIT, thats all. Dont be anxious, dont worry, dont look around the things others have or what Ive given them. Dont look at the things you want. You just keep looking up to Me for you will miss what I have to show to you. When you are ready, Ill surprise you w/ a love more wonder... http://beigejavier.multiply.com/journal/item/1/soulexpression Tue, 18 Mar 2008 00:06:42 -0000 Picture paints a thousand http://beigejavier.multiply.com/photos/album/2/Facepics Sun, 16 Mar 2008 23:51:19 -0000 http://beigejavier.multiply.com/photos/album/1/Friends Tue, 11 Mar 2008 19:19:15 -0000